Problems, unqualified and undisclaimed.

[commodorified]

I realised tonight that I have, basically, been in pain for twenty years.

I have all sorts of thoughts about this, but I'm too sore, tired, medicated, and angry to make anything coherent out of them

ETA: But, in a nutshell — probably a hideously non-ergonomic nutshell with no padding for my hip — people in chronic pain need, basically, doulas.

Comments

Linguistic evolution

[james_g4clf]

The meaning of "doula" has changed over the last couple of millennia, that's not what it means today. Whether or not a word is acceptable changes (both ways) very quickly so I feel that the social status of a doula in Ancient Greece does not really justify eschewing the word today.

If a doula is what Marna needs, that's what she should have - plus hugs, kittens, wine and chocolate oranges.

Re: Linguistic evolution

[perennialanna]

I would love to debate that one with you (I have a whole list of citations all ready and waiting, because believe me, I have researched this one...) but it isn't the time or the place.

So I'll say what I forgot to say first time, and wish Marna all the helpful things, and especially a comforter (old sense. The sense newer editions of the King James Version have to put in a note explaining. I wish it was still as strong a word as that).

Re: Linguistic evolution

[commodorified]

It's not that I don't take your point, but I am less inclined to bo bothered when a word from a culture no longer extant (Greek culture certainly being alive and a descendant but not sharing a lot of points wrt socio-political structure.)

It's a recognised profession around here, so in practical terms I think we're stuck with it.

Re: Linguistic evolution

[perennialanna]

It's a profession here too, but I think the relative newness is why the "What is a Doula?" sections of websites usually start with something along the lines of "Doula is a Greek word meaning "woman servant or caregiver"" (Doulas UK website).

Still, whilst in many ways it falls into ancillary care, presumably someone at some point spotted that ancilla is so often translated handmaid that perhaps we'd better not go there.

Re: Linguistic evolution

[commodorified]

Yeah, I can see the vexedness.

Re: Linguistic evolution

[commodorified]

Hugs, chocolate and kittens most appreciated- as is the lovely pair of knives, which I realise I never thanked you for. They are fab; I kept one and shared one with staranise, who was also knife-deprived, and our kitchens are much improved!

*hugs*

Re: Chocolate - and the Hell with Linguistic evolution

[james_g4clf]

Hugs and kittens are virtual as I'm 5313 km away, but a chocolate orange is on its way. Bynnifer, who is far from a kitten, being nearly 19, sends a purr.